The main pointer to follow is to cut off all communication for awhile, the reason for this is to give him a little time to miss you. So don't make any excuses for any contact for any reason. This is the time when you need to stay strong and stick to the plan.
By staying away from your ex for a bit you will give him time to think, So no phone calls, stay off the instant messenger, quit checking to see their online status, etc etc. You get the picture. And by staying away you will have time to clear your head as well. Just know this process is going to take a little time.
The next pointer would be to look at your own self. You two broke up for a reason, and if your here reading this article then the odds are it was something that you did, or something that put you in a negative light.
Whatever the case, we are all humans and we all make mistakes. Maybe you were to negative or to demanding. We are who we are and sometimes we are just acting naturally when were being to controlling or pushy. By looking at yourself and realizing that your serious about reuniting, you will adjust your attitude accordingly and do the things it takes to get back in your ex boyfriends arms.
The third pointer I would pass along could be a clincher if put to use properly.
Think about all the weak points that stood out in the relationship. I'm sure you remember all the little things that he would complain about that bugged him.
A little gesture can go along way...
By taking in consideration the things that he likes, and all the different ways you know of making him happy, you will be spoiling him and in return he will be happy with you.
If your are lucky enough to fulfill your desire to get your ex back, then take it slow and don't go over board with showing how overwhelmed with joy you are.
By remembering to cut off all communication for awhile, and by taking a look at yourself while working on your past short coming's, as well as doing those special things that you know make him happy, You will be doing what it takes to get back with your ex boyfriend.
